Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Who's Your Daddy?


The Extent to Which the Father Goes to Receive us as His Children


I have not been a father for very long, and already I know that no matter what my son does and no matter who he becomes, I will love him and receive him as my son. He is mine. I was just thinking the other day about what would happen if I were to ever lose him. I imagined the emotion that would rush over me knowing that I would never see my son again. Just by using my imagination, I assure you, I would do anything to make sure that does not happen.

A good father will do anything to keep his child. God is the greatest Father of all and so He will do anything to keep us with Him. I think that is why most of us resonate with the idea that we are children of God. When we are children of God, we find security in the depth of God's love for us- that He would do anything to keep us and would never let us down. Like a father, God is strong and able to protect us and He is gentle and kind enough to receive us gladly. His love is so great that even when we sin, He wants to receive us.

God wants to be our Father and we want to be His children. He wants to be our Father because He wants to always receive us. We want to be His children because we desire the security found in His care.
This is great! We rejoice in God the Father, and if nothing else were to be said we would immediately, but we also all know something else about God. Something terrifying. It's something we don't often talk about because we don't really like it, but if we are going to face God we must also face this.

The Problem
Being a child of God is not that easy. Jesus wished that it was that easy when He cried out in Gethsemane, “O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.” (Matthew 26:29)

If there was nothing more to be said, if we are all children of God and God receives us all and treats us like sons, then Jesus would have never spoken these words. But as it is God cannot receive us as sons because according to Ephesians chapter 2 verse 3 we all begin as children of God's wrath, which means that we are born with a sin problem. Further, God cannot receive us like His children because the punishment for our sin is eternal separation from God. Sadly, we will receive for our wages an everlasting punishment, because we have transgressed the law of God when we knew better. (Matthew 25:46) This is terrifying.

To state the problem simply, God is not only a Father, He is also a Judge. Because our sin deserves punishment, before God can receive us as children, He must first carry out the required punishment of eternal separation as He is obligated to because He is a righteous Judge. God the Father cannot receive us as children because God the Judge stands in the way. Justice must be carried out. We all deserve to drink the cup of God's wrath spoken of in Psalm 75:8 which the wicked are said to be forced to drink.

If you still think that you are a child of God because you believe that all men are born children of God, you need to hear from Jesus in John chapter 8 verses 37 through 47. In this passage Jesus speaks to the Pharisees, the religious leaders of the day, and says to them that they do not hear him because they are not children of God as they had always supposed. (I hope you hear Him out on this one.)

You see, in that day the Jews believed much like most people do today, with one difference. They believed that they were all children of God because they were born children of God. The difference between them and most people today is that they believed only Jews were born children of God, whereas today people believe that all of us are born children of God.

What Jesus says in this passage is striking. He tells the Pharisees that they were not children of God, rather that they were children of Satan! He says that it's not who you call daddy that makes you someones child, rather, it's who calls you son. Think about it: If Satan is the father of lies, as Jesus says he is in this passage, would he want you to believe that you are a child of God or a child of Satan?

Now that we know we are born children of God's wrath because we are children of Satan and that we deserve eternal separation from God, how does God the Judge show His love for me when I deserve His wrath? How does the God who wants to receive me as His child do so when according to His position as Judge, He remains completely unable?

The Solution
The answer is simple and magnificent. If God is going to show His love, His wrath must first be taken care of, which He did through sending Jesus Christ to bear the punishment for us. Jesus stepped down from the seat of judgment just long enough to become our Savior. (John 3:17) When He comes a second time He will take back the judgment seat to judge those who did not receive Him. (Matthew 24:44-51)

Jesus became our Savior by taking the fullness of God's wrath upon Himself. This is the only way that God can receive us as children, confirmed by Jesus in Gethsemane when He said, “O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.” (Matthew 26:29)

There was no other way possible, so just as a good father, God was willing to go to whatever lengths necessary to make us His children. He did this by sending His only begotten Son to take the eternal punishment reserved for us.

First God is our Judge, but He wants to be our Father. In order to do so, He had to become our Savior. How simple and yet, how magnificent!


What This Means
Jesus looked forward to the day when salvation would be accomplished and spoke of it often. In one such instance He said, “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John10:28) When we become children of God on the basis of what Jesus has done, there is no way that we can lose our position as children because Jesus hold us tightly in His unfailing hand.

After Jesus was gone, He left His Apostles to teach us further. The Apostle Paul also expounds on what it means to be a child of God in Romans chapter 8 verses 14 through 17,

For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together.

Through the Spirit of God we may have confidence that we are children of God. Having this confidence, we have the promise that as children we will be glorified together with Christ. Could it get any better?

How to Become a Child of God
Since not everyone is a child of God, and even more striking, if you are not a child of God then you are a child of Satan, it makes sense why the Apostle John would say, “Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.” (1 John 3:1)

So how do we become Children of God? In the same letter John tells us how. “Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God.” (1 John 5:1) It's that simple. God wants to have a relationship with us. He wants to be our Father. Since relationships are built upon faith, all God asks of us is that we believe on the One whom He sent. According to John in his gospel, this is the work of God. (John 6:29)

Are you doing the work of God or are you trying to work with God for your salvation? If you are still trying to work with God for your salvation you have not completely grasped the understanding that God is your Judge and that you have already failed. (Romans 6:23) Nothing you do will make up for your failings before the Judge. (Titus 3:5) Justice must be served, and it's not tasty! But God wants you to rest and He wants to receive you as His child. (Hebrews 4:1-3)

Relationships are not based upon performance but upon trust. Trust Christ alone and so become a child of the Most High. It's not about what you do, it's about what He has done for you.


For thus saith the Lord God,
the Holy One of Israel,
In returning and rest
shall ye be saved,
In quietness and confidence
shall be your strength...”

let it not be said of you

...and ye would not”.
Isaiah 30:15

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